Marriage Counselling &
One on One Coaching
Find marital happiness in a few weeks
Coach Robert Chambers – Writer Public Speaker.
Manager Owner – Australian Professional Counselling Services
“Are you seriously in need of a lovely healthy relationship or marriage and family then read on.”
I have been a practicing family, marriage counsellor, coach since 1997; that’s 26 years of teaching and wisdom with a background in sales, marketing, electronics, Government security, building interior design and teaching. I bring a vast range of understanding, compassion, wisdom and skills to coaching and can communicate on the same level with most people due to my background and the many types of work I have engaged in over the years.
I’m not your average wishy, washy counsellor or therapist. I consider myself more of a communication teacher and teach couples how to create loving healthy relationships and marriages in a very short time. Through teaching excellent communication skills, I give great service and spend many hours on the phone after hours with my clients. That’s why I have more positive google reviews than any counsellor or therapist in Australia.
I’m also Guessing You’re Here Looking for a Marriage Therapist, or counsellor In A Last Final To Save Your Marriage or relationship. But Here’s The Problem, Traditional Marriage and relationship Therapy and counselling Is Outdated, Ineffective, And Doesn’t Work; ESPECIALLY If Your Wife or husband or partner Has Already Checked Out physically or emotionally. I see many couples who have already tried therapy and counselling for months with no success. And it only takes me a couple of weeks to get my clients back together on a healthy path.
Conventional therapy and counselling were developed during a time when especially a WOMAN really couldn’t leave a marriage for many reasons (economic, social, legal, etc.).
Therapy was a way to help two people who had to stay together, make it LESS PAINFUL.
In 2023, your wife, husband or partner can leave anytime…
The necessity to “Work It Out” has long gone, yet the marriage therapies remain the same as 30 years ago or more!
In a new era, marriage therapy requires a TOTALLY DIFFERENT approach, if a marriage or relationship in trouble is to be saved.
Dragging somebody kicking and screaming into therapy when they don’t want to, is NOT going to get you the results you want…
It’s just going to get you a big bill.
And lots frustration and more PAIN. Don’t get me wrong…
I offer therapy and counselling if that’s what you really want, but before you decide, read this entire page and make an informed decision!
If you are like 97% plus of MEN who contact me or women; therapy is definitely the WRONG CHOICE for YOU!
All you’re going to do in therapy is rehash your old fights and indiscretions, talk bad about each other, and make the situation worse…
And EXPECT ME to be the judge and decide who’s right and I’m not going to do that. Consider me your teacher in communication. Teachers don’t judge.
The MOST LIKELY OUTCOME is that you will reinforce her or his decision, that to leave, is the right thing to do!
I can definitely offer you a more effective solution to save your marriage or relationship that doesn’t involve talking about your feelings! It’s called taking action. You can never talk your way out of a situation you got yourself into. This is today’s problem out there.
I also offer one on one coaching if you prefer to work individually on your own personal development.
I feel that today’s definition of the family is unrecognizable compared to the definition forty, thirty, even twenty years ago. Chaos has become typical of the modern family. Over the years, I have attempted to bring some order, with “Keep it Simple” strategies and address issues resulting from convoluted dysfunctional family life whom many lead today. In our society, the traditional family has expanded to include exes, parents of exes, blended families, stepchildren, lovers, adopted children, and in laws, etc. Most children at the preschool level in Australia these days do not know what it is like to have a mother and father live in the same house leaving many children these days screwed up with no role models or know what boundaries are and heading towards dysfunctional relationships themselves as they learn their behaviour and attitudes from their parents.
When it comes to families, I have seen it all.I also address explosive issues, which can drive families, marriages and relationships crazy. Also, l share my honest thoughts on conflict and chaos in those families.I will help and teach you to develop strategies, by supplying the right tools to resolve conflict, repair yourself, relationships and marriages that you are part of, regardless of what state they are in if you are serious in having a better life and relationships.
Flexible marriage coaching and counselling.
One main aspect in relationships I have learned over the years is to “love yourself.” Because you cannot love another unless you love and respect yourself first.
If your partner has left you or relationship is in trouble.
Then The First Step to Healing Your Marriage Is to Take:
“EXTREME OWNERSHIP and RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY for YOUR OWN HAPPINESS”.
And Then Invite “your partner” Into That Space.
You Can’t Give What You Don’t Have, And If You Can’t Find Your Own Happiness, How Can they Trust YOU To Lead them to their Happiness?
Robert Chambers is a Sunshine Coast-based relationship & marriage coach who teaches couples how to communicate, identify and honour their love languages and learn actionable steps that lead to a lifetime of happiness.